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5 lessons college taught me about relationships

College is a time for growing into the adult you want to be. Here’s what it taught me in four, short years.
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Advice for high schoolers: your relationship isn’t everything

You’ve certainly heard that high school isn’t the most important period of your life. Yet, when I was there, it felt pretty significant. Even though I had a strong relationship with my family, my friends were more important. Worse, I was obsessed with boys. I’m talking check my phone every five seconds to see who…
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No one likes to talk about the hard stuff
Long distance sucks. It sucks a whole when your support system is over 8 hours away. There’s no luxury of visiting for a weekend because weekend visits are out of driving distance, and plane tickets are too expensive. It sucks when everyone else’s boyfriends get to come visit while you sit in your room eating…
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5 Reasons You Should Never Settle

James Michael Sama As I sit here to write this article, I’m in our hotel room overlooking the beach. The waves sound so close you feel like you can put your hand out the window and touch them. My girlfriend is making coffee. Her tanned skin is accentuated even further by the stark white walls.…
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If someone knows all the secrets about dating … let me know.
I don’t understand the male brain. The male brain doesn’t understand me. My biggest problem is I don’t understand how to control my emotions. But then again why should I have to? **Isn’t the best part of dating someone the emotional part? I…
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Slow and steady wins the race
I’m kind of chuckling to myself that I just titled a blog post about dating that way. Somehow though I keep reminding myself that, that cliche saying is the way I need to look at dating. If you don’t know already, which from this blog you can probably tell, I like to rush into relationships…
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Love is the ultimate unknown
I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in a relationship, but I’m still scared. Where do all the relationship answers lie and why are we always searching for them? There’s a reason why girls love movies like He’s Just Not that Into You and lyrics from Taylor Swift. There’s a reason why we get lost in…
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Am I allowed to take back the past 48 hours?
If I could rewind to Saturday night I would. I would take back my actions, my thoughts, and my decisions. I wouldn’t have agreed to go out with other guys Saturday night, knowing it would make you uncomfortable. I wouldn’t have allowed myself to keep that a secret. If I could rewind to Saturday…
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Taylor Swift’s guide to a break-up

For about two months now I’ve been trying to write this post. I wrote, erased, wrote, erased. I couldn’t grasp any clever bones in my body. What I wanted was to put lyrics from Swift’s songs together into one prose to describe the different stages of relationships. But I just couldn’t do it. All I…
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Top 5 Worst Dates I’ve Been On
I’ve been on a handful of dates throughout my dating career. Some have been fabulous and others, not so much. It’s always weird to think back on why I allowed certain situations, but it’s always fun to see how much I’ve grown through these experiences. Dating teaches you a lot about yourself. These dates have…