carleymeiners

I don’t understand the male brain. 

The male brain doesn’t understand me.

My biggest problem is I don’t understand how to control my emotions.

But then again why should I have to?

                        **Isn’t the best part of dating someone the emotional part?

I have spent the entire week (in between studying and internship applications) trying to understand why I’m upset and if it’s justifiable for me to be upset. My conclusion: I don’t know and yes it is.

I know it’s OK to fight in a relationship, but when it happens to me I feel like my usually happy relationship is falling apart. I don’t know when it’s worth the fight or when it’s time to move on. My mom tries to walk me through what I should do but ends up in the conclusion that only I know the answer. How am I supposed to know the answer? I’m only 21.

I guess what I ultimately don’t know is how to work through your problems. I know relationships aren’t easy, but when do you know all the answers? I always felt like there was some secret to relationships that everyone knew except me.

Am I supposed to just guess my way to marriage?